{"id":233949,"date":"2026-10-04T02:00:00","date_gmt":"2026-10-04T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fundacioncarf.org\/?p=233949"},"modified":"2026-10-01T17:54:20","modified_gmt":"2026-10-01T15:54:20","slug":"el-amor-es-mas-fuerte-que-la-pornografia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fundacioncarf.org\/vi\/el-amor-es-mas-fuerte-que-la-pornografia\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00ab"T\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 phim khi\u00eau d\u00e2m"\u00bb"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng n\u00e0y, linh m\u1ee5c ng\u01b0\u1eddi Chile Juan Ignacio Izquierdo H\u00fcbner, cha x\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng Tabancura, \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m. C\u00e1i nh\u00ecn m\u1edbi. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 phim khi\u00eau d\u00e2m.<\/em> (Nh\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n Semillas, 2025), m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 ra \u0111\u1eddi t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. \u00d4ng l\u00e0 lu\u1eadt s\u01b0, nh\u00e0 th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb... \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Navarra<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng \u0110\u00f4i m\u1eaft m\u1edbi<\/em> \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng nguy hi\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a khi\u00eau d\u00e2m, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m v\u0103n h\u1ecdc. Th\u00f4ng qua c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac s\u00e2n kh\u1ea5u, v\u1edbi c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt nh\u01b0 thi\u00ean th\u1ea7n Lumen v\u00e0 \u00e1c qu\u1ef7 Grimson, s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc, \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i v\u00e0 c\u1ed1t truy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t "t\u00f2a \u00e1n \u0111\u00eam" th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, Cha Juan Ignacio c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t phong c\u00e1ch h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n n\u00e0y, \u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao \u00f4ng tin r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i n\u1ed9i dung khi\u00eau d\u00e2m c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea5u tranh cho t\u1ef1 do, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec1 cao nh\u00e2n t\u00ednh ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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C\u00e1i nh\u00ecn m\u1edbi. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 phim khi\u00eau d\u00e2m.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u2014T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 khi\u00eau d\u00e2m?<\/strong> Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho l\u1ec5 th\u1ee5 phong linh m\u1ee5c, t\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd bao g\u1ed3m: Tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i khi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/a>, M\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 n\u1ed9i dung khi\u00eau d\u00e2m. T\u00f4i nh\u1edb c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c ng\u01b0\u1eddi T\u00e2y Ban Nha t\u1eebng k\u1ec3 v\u1edbi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u1edf ch\u1ee7ng vi\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1edbi \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi sinh vi\u00ean v\u1ec1 Ch\u00faa Ba Ng\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u1ea1i d\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nhu c\u1ea7u m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 r\u1ea5t c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. T\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y v\u00e0 vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 h\u1eefu \u00edch cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb \u0111ang v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n v\u1edbi ch\u1ee9ng nghi\u1ec7n phim khi\u00eau d\u00e2m. \u01af\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n: sau khi \u0111\u1ecdc xong, ai \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ngh\u0129, "Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u00eam ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y.".<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i?<\/strong> Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n cho h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd c\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft. Gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb khao kh\u00e1t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 s\u00e2u k\u00edn nh\u1ea5t, h\u1ecd khao kh\u00e1t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau l\u1ea1i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, phim \u1ea3nh khi\u00eau d\u00e2m mang l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n t\u1ee9c th\u00ec, nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m sai l\u1ec7ch ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 n\u1ea3n l\u00f2ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1edbi m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn ngh\u0129. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecf m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung ho\u1eb7c tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111ang l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014T\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ti\u00eau \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a \u0110\u00f4i m\u1eaft m\u1edbi<\/em>?<\/strong> B\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ch\u1ee9ng nghi\u1ec7n phim khi\u00eau d\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u. Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi quen nh\u00ecn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi qua l\u0103ng k\u00ednh phim khi\u00eau d\u00e2m, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ec9 vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch "ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i khi\u00eau d\u00e2m". T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u1edbn lao h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u: v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn. Nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1eadt th\u1ec3. Nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ed1ng. Nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean, t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt, gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ee9c tin. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u1eb1ng con m\u1eaft m\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

\u2014Li\u1ec7u khi\u00eau d\u00e2m ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c?<\/strong> \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u00f3 g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u1ef1 do, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c (\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t), b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n h\u00f3a m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 th\u00e0nh h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh m\u00e9o m\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ki\u1ec3m duy\u1ec7t hay c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n; m\u00e0 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecd \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n h\u01b0\u1edbng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014\u0110i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 g\u00ec trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y?<\/strong> \u0110i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, vi\u1ec7c truy c\u1eadp m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 n\u1ed9i dung nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm. Ng\u00e0y nay, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong t\u00fai c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00ecnh c\u1edd. V\u00e0 c\u00f2n m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa: \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 cho ph\u00e9p truy c\u1eadp v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 n\u1ed9i dung khi\u00eau d\u00e2m, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m gia t\u0103ng s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, s\u1ef1 nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft t\u1eeb g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 khi\u00eau d\u00e2m. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh \u0111ang d\u1ea1y cho gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014\u1ede T\u00e2y Ban Nha, tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi n\u1ed9i dung khi\u00eau d\u00e2m v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3ng 9 \u0111\u1ebfn 11 tu\u1ed5i. V\u1eady vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi n\u1ed9i dung n\u00e0y \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/strong> \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang y\u00eau c\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb x\u1eed l\u00fd m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ho\u1eb7c tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. V\u00e0 trong m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n ba tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, l\u1ea7n ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00ecnh c\u1edd. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb "\u0111\u1eebng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm n\u1ed9i dung khi\u00eau d\u00e2m", b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p n\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c ph\u00f2ng ng\u1eeba b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u00e1t sinh. Vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng g\u00ec g\u00e2y h\u1ea1i cho m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1edd cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 khi g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng c\u1ea5p thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n tr\u00ean thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb di \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u2014Cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec?<\/strong> Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea1i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n. \u0110\u00f4i khi cha m\u1eb9 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. Nh\u01b0ng tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c khi ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t ra ranh gi\u1edbi. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng. Cho \u0111i... \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i th\u00f4ng minh<\/em> Vi\u1ec7c cho tr\u1ebb em truy c\u1eadp internet kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u0169ng c\u00f2n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 s\u1ee9c. T\u00f4i xin l\u1ed7i, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt t\u00e0n nh\u1eabn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 ba l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn thay th\u1ebf. Ch\u1ec9 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh th\u00f4i l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7: b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y kho\u1ea3ng tr\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, th\u1ec3 thao, \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean, gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n. T\u1ef1 do c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014\u00d4ng\/B\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m hi\u1ec7n nay c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y? <\/strong>T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan ng\u1ea1i m\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng Leo XIV b\u00e0y t\u1ecf v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 m\u1edbi. Ng\u00e0i nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng mang t\u00ednh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 ph\u1ea3i ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00d4ng c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 m\u1ea1ng l\u01b0\u1edbi h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb. Do \u0111\u00f3, Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Juan<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

H\u00e3y theo Gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng Leo<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

\u2014\u00d4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111ang noi theo b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng Leo \u1edf m\u1ed9t kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng?<\/strong> V\u00e2ng, b\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00f4i chia s\u1ebb m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m tin c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n: ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1eb7t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m trung t\u00e2m. C\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 phi th\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 n\u1eefa khi n\u00f3 thay th\u1ebf ch\u00fang ta. V\u00e0 Gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng Leo XIII \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean kh\u1ecfi vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt s\u1ed1 qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm, kh\u00f4ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014V\u1eady gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p l\u00e0 c\u1ea5m sao?<\/strong> Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u00e0, khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, \u0111\u1eb7t ra gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n. C\u00f9ng v\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u00f4i khi s\u1ebd c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea5m m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh \u1edf m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ch\u1ec9 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn ngay c\u1ea3 khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai quan s\u00e1t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t th\u00edch t\u1eeb "\u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh". M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb \u0111ang v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n v\u1edbi ch\u1ee9ng nghi\u1ec7n phim khi\u00eau d\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i cho h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u sai tr\u00e1i. H\u1ecd c\u1ea7n ai \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh, l\u1eafng nghe m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb s\u1ed1c, v\u00e0 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014V\u1eady ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t trong th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec?<\/strong> \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, h\u00e3y kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u! S\u1ef1 x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng minh r\u1ea5t t\u1ed3i khi n\u00f3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng. Sau \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ec3 ai \u0111\u00f3 (l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9) c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con trong th\u1eed th\u00e1ch kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u00f3i quen, gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e1u trong l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t c\u1ee7a Ch\u00faa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u2014V\u1eady Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 g\u00ec trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y? <\/strong>M\u1ed9t v\u1ecb tr\u00ed trung t\u00e2m. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o bao g\u1ed3m vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp cho nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng, r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh s\u1edf h\u1eefu ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng l\u1edbn lao, v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00eau g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u00ec quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i. S\u1ef1 trong s\u1ea1ch, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. V\u00e0 khi kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng quan t\u00e2m: "T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o?".<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eafn nh\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a phim khi\u00eau d\u00e2m? <\/strong>T\u00f4i s\u1ebd khuy\u00ean anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Anh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 "ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u1ec7n" hay "ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 v\u1ecdng". Anh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 bao ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 anh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd khuy\u00ean anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u \u1edf ph\u00eda b\u00ean kia c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea5u tranh n\u00e0y. Khi b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u gi\u00e0nh l\u1ea1i t\u1ef1 do, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra r\u1eb1ng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e0u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n t\u1eebng th\u1ea5y tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u2014V\u1eady b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eafn nh\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh? <\/strong>H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. Tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 ch\u00fang, ngay c\u1ea3 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n giao ph\u00f3 cho tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc, c\u00e1c n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 hay ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c vai tr\u00f2 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i hy v\u1ecdng<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

\u2014B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra sau khi ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecdc xong? \u0110\u00f4i m\u1eaft m\u1edbi<\/em>? <\/strong>T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t l\u00e0n s\u00f3ng hy v\u1ecdng. T\u00f4i mong r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129: "M\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 do." T\u00f4i mong r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i: "Gi\u1edd t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con m\u00ecnh t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.". <\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p hay m\u1ed9t m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn v\u00ec m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u: kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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M\u1ee5c l\u1ee5c<\/h3>