{"id":224856,"date":"2025-10-11T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-10-11T04:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fundacioncarf.org\/?p=224856"},"modified":"2025-10-07T18:34:14","modified_gmt":"2025-10-07T16:34:14","slug":"el-don-de-llorar-opinion-ernesto-julia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fundacioncarf.org\/vi\/el-don-de-llorar-opinion-ernesto-julia\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u00f3n qu\u00e0 c\u1ee7a n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 khi kh\u00f3c v\u00e0 r\u01a1i n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft; th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc khi \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea5m k\u1ef5 l\u00e2u \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u1eabn c\u00f2n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta cho r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f3c ch\u1ec9 d\u00e0nh ri\u00eang cho ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 l\u1ebd trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi li\u1ec7t k\u00ea v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng gi\u1ecdt n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 Cervantes \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u00e8 n\u1eb7ng l\u00ean t\u00e2m tr\u00ed h\u1ecd: \u00ab"C\u00f3 ba l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n ngoan c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f3c: th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i; th\u1ee9 hai, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha th\u1ee9 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i; th\u1ee9 ba, v\u00ec ghen t\u1ecb: n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb9p tr\u00ean khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t nghi\u00eam ngh\u1ecb.". <\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Theo t\u00f4i, Don Miguel \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n h\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f3c, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd v\u00ec \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f3c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o<\/a>. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y hi\u1ec3u r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9m g\u00ec ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ai c\u0169ng kh\u00f3c, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f3c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang, nh\u01b0ng ai c\u0169ng kh\u00f3c: gi\u00e0 tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, \u1ed1m \u0111au, b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7, ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed9ng, ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9, v.v. Ai m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3c khi m\u1eb9 m\u1ea5t th\u00ec l\u1ea1i r\u01a1i n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi con ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi; ai m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nao n\u00fang tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a k\u1ebb th\u00f9 th\u00ec c\u0169ng b\u1eadt kh\u00f3c trong tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e0 ai m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng t\u1eebng r\u01a1i n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft thanh th\u1ea3n khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00f4n l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh sau nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m xa c\u00e1ch? C\u00f3 l\u1ebd trong nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u1ea5y, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng gi\u1ecdt n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t t\u1eeb Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf d\u00e0nh cho nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft m\u1edf ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 l\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 n\u00e0o v\u1eeba mang t\u00ednh nh\u00e2n v\u0103n v\u1eeba thi\u00eang li\u00eang h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u1ecdt n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft, ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 nh\u00e2n v\u0103n. Ch\u00faa Gi\u00ea-su Ki-t\u00f4<\/a>, Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4 ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt v\u00e0 thi\u00eang li\u00eang \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng qua c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n Lazarus. C\u00e1c T\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i d\u00e1m ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng c\u00f3 v\u1ecb th\u00e1nh n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3c. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft m\u1edf ra c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 t\u00f9 ch\u1eadt h\u1eb9p, n\u01a1i m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb giam c\u1ea7m v\u00e0o l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f2n c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u00f4 t\u1ed9i; khi ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng m\u00e0 ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa; khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb; khi ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd; khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 \u0111i\u00ean lo\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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N\u1ed7i x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 khi kh\u00f3c<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

C\u00f3 l\u1ebd nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 khi b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u0111ang kh\u00f3c, nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1eabm n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e1ng x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i, m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c trong vi\u1ec7c v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t c\u1ee7a Jacinto Benavente l\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. <\/strong>V\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c nhau khi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f3c: "\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng," \u00f4ng nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t, "h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 lu\u00f4n kh\u00f3c m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh; ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ch\u1ec9 kh\u00f3c khi c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 lau n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft cho h\u1ecd." V\u00e0 \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng vui, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00ec m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi kh\u00f3c \u0111\u1ec1u mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an \u1ee7i, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi duy nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 an \u1ee7i h\u1ecd t\u1eadn s\u00e2u trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n l\u00e0 Ch\u00faa: \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef t\u00f4i g\u1eb7p trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f3c m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh trong g\u00f3c nh\u00e0 th\u1edd, \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi sau khi kh\u00f3c<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

\u00ab"M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ecdt n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft n\u00e0o r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng sa m\u1ea1c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ecdt n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0o; n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 sinh ra r\u1eafn." Nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t c\u1ee7a Castelar, d\u00f9 mang \u0111\u1eadm ch\u1ea5t l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n, v\u1eabn r\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft kh\u00f3c m\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng th\u00f9 h\u1eadn, kh\u00f4ng o\u00e1n gi\u1eadn, kh\u00f4ng nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00f2ng th\u00f9 h\u1eadn.<\/strong>, v\u00e0 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ni\u1ec1m vui trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi thanh th\u1ea3n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi sau khi kh\u00f3c gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u1ea7u v\u1ed3ng, bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh y\u00ean v\u00e0 thanh th\u1ea3n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft kh\u00f3c, ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f3c, mang m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u0111i\u1ec1m x\u1ea5u, m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi nguy\u1ec1n r\u1ee7a v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 t\u00e0n nh\u1eabn, v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tha th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng hay m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ernesto Juli\u00e1<\/strong>, ernesto.julia@gmail.com<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u0103ng l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u00ean T\u00f4n gi\u00e1o B\u00ed m\u1eadt<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ee5c l\u1ee5c<\/h2>