{"id":194811,"date":"2024-04-05T12:40:10","date_gmt":"2024-04-05T10:40:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/staging.fundacioncarf.org\/?p=194811"},"modified":"2024-06-05T18:15:03","modified_gmt":"2024-06-05T16:15:03","slug":"necesidades-y-retos-de-la-vida-afectiva-del-sacerdote","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fundacioncarf.org\/vi\/necesidades-y-retos-de-la-vida-afectiva-del-sacerdote\/","title":{"rendered":"Nhu c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a linh m\u1ee5c"},"content":{"rendered":"

G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n. \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y? <\/strong>T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 may m\u1eafn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tham gia c\u00e1c kh\u00f3a hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ngh\u00ecn linh m\u1ee5c v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u1eebng \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n, v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1eady n\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p v\u00e0 nghi ng\u1edd c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd? <\/strong>Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf n\u00e0y trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd ho\u1eb7c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ecd. Trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n trong c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdp b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c, tu s\u0129 v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n. Nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 soi s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c ghi l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1eefu \u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ed7i th\u1eddi r\u1ed3i sao?<\/strong> Theo kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i, m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n. T\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi C\u00f4ng gi\u00e1o, m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf mang l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 phong ph\u00fa v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n, l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00e0 truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng. T\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n h\u00e3y l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 trong m\u1ed9t b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 h\u00e2n hoan, v\u1edbi m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch hi\u1ec3u, tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 l\u00e0m gi\u00e0u cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n th\u00f4ng qua n\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00f3 h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0o?<\/strong> T\u00f4i vi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu d\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi coi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n l\u00e0 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Kit\u00f4 h\u1eefu n\u00e0o. T\u00f4i hy v\u1ecdng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n l\u00e0m phong ph\u00fa th\u00eam \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a Gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o v\u00e0 \u01a1n g\u1ecdi c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1eady c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n th\u00ec sao? <\/strong>V\u00e2ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf v\u00ec, nh\u01b0 S\u00e1ch Gi\u00e1o l\u00fd \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n.\u201cH\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 l\u1eabn nhau.<\/em>\u201dDo \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i hy v\u1ecdng b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u01a1i g\u1ee3i suy ngh\u0129 cho c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng chia s\u1ebb \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u2013 v\u00ed d\u1ee5, cho cha m\u1eb9 khi con g\u00e1i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n \u2013 v\u00e0 cho b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u th\u00eam v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m phong ph\u00fa \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00f4ng qua s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1eady c\u00f2n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n th\u00ec sao?<\/strong> C\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n gi\u1eefa th\u1ebf gian, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp v\u00e0 l\u00e0m n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 chung nh\u01b0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n; ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 ch\u1ee9c linh m\u1ee5c chung c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c t\u00edn h\u1eefu; s\u1ee9 m\u1ec7nh \u0111\u1eb7c th\u00f9; Th\u00e1nh Th\u1ec3; noi g\u01b0\u01a1ng Ch\u00faa Kit\u00f4; l\u00e0m ch\u1ee9ng cho s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7p nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa; t\u00ecnh m\u1eabu t\u1eed v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh ph\u1ee5 t\u1eed, v.v.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 c\u1ee9u r\u1ed7i v\u1ecb linh m\u1ee5c.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u00d4ng\/B\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129 t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng\/b\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1eefu \u00edch trong vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c?<\/strong> Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u n\u00e0y hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 tr\u00ean t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed khoa h\u1ecdc. Scripta Theologica<\/a> V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Sau khi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n 140 linh m\u1ee5c, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1m kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh trong s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a linh m\u1ee5c: m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh; t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i chung v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi; c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh t\u00e2m linh t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng; t\u00edch c\u1ef1c s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh huynh \u0111\u1ec7 linh m\u1ee5c, c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng; s\u1ef1 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u00e1c kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0 m\u1edbi m\u1ebb c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng linh m\u1ee5c; ch\u0103m s\u00f3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t (\u0103n u\u1ed1ng, ng\u1ee7 ngh\u1ec9, t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c, s\u1edf th\u00edch) v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n (ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp ranh gi\u1edbi, c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7); ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng; v\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9 m\u1ec7nh r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i cho vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 n\u00e0o khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng?<\/strong> V\u00e2ng, v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n. C\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 thuy\u1ebft nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u m\u1edbi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n m\u00e0 c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn. H\u1ecd coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 l\u00e0 r\u1ee7i ro ch\u00ednh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft li\u1ec7u h\u1ecd \u0111ang \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t do b\u1ecb c\u00f4 l\u1eadp, s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n v\u1ec1 tinh th\u1ea7n do kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng do thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3, s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd do h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng an to\u00e0n, s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n m\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 do kh\u1ed1i l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e1 t\u1ea3i, hay s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb linh m\u1ee5c tu t\u1eadp s\u1ef1 t\u0129nh l\u1eb7ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ee3p l\u00fd sao?<\/strong> V\u00e2ng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00eau ra trong cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 h\u1ecd ch\u01b0a t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n s\u1ef1 t\u0129nh l\u1eb7ng v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 vun \u0111\u1eafp m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa, m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian n\u01a1i h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi Ng\u00e0i. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd s\u1edbm b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n trong gi\u1edbi linh m\u1ee5c, v\u1edbi m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 lo\u1ea1i c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 thi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Chiclana t\u1ea1i Di\u1ec5n \u0111\u00e0n Omnes.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng minh l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n n\u00e0y?<\/strong> C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 nh\u01b0 s\u1ed1ng trong c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00e2m linh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c t\u1ed1t, s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 t\u1eeb c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c kh\u00e1c, m\u1ea1ng l\u01b0\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t (t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i chung v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c kh\u00e1c), ch\u0103m s\u00f3c s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i, m\u1ed9t h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c \u00edt ph\u00e2n c\u1ea5p v\u00e0 mang t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean\/h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c h\u01a1n, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00f3m, duy tr\u00ec ranh gi\u1edbi l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh trong c\u00e1c kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, t\u00ednh h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i, s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1c quan v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng cam k\u1ebft. Nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi b\u00e0i h\u00e1t c\u1ee7a Ariel Rot \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: Ai c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, h\u00e3y tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng n\u00f3 \/ v\u00e0 gi\u1eef v\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng<\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i t\u00f4i \u0111ang th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c, v\u00e0 \u0111ang trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n thu th\u1eadp d\u1eef li\u1ec7u th\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ecba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng?<\/strong> \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady, ph\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch l\u00e0 "H\u00e3y t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n". V\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u00ean n\u00f3 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, b\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd c\u01b0 ng\u1ee5 trong "ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m" c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u01b0 ng\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9c quy\u1ec1n trong b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i cho vi\u1ec7c b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o c\u00f5i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa, trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00e2m linh \u0111\u1ed9c nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f3. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n vi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean NGO hay m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u1ed3ng y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a B\u1ed9 Gi\u00e1o s\u0129, Lazzaro B\u1ea1n<\/a> \u00d4ng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi Omnes r\u1eb1ng "m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng trong Ch\u00faa. Ch\u00faa c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c, Ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 M\u1ed9t v\u00e0 Ba Ng\u00f4i.".<\/strong> C\u00f3 l\u1ebd s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c \u1ea5y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc k\u00e9t s\u1eaft c\u1ea5t gi\u1ea5u kho b\u00e1u, v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm ra ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng h\u00e1t v\u1edbi Th\u00e1nh Gioan Th\u00e1nh Gi\u00e1: N\u00e0ng s\u1ed1ng trong c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c \/ v\u00e0 trong c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c n\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e2y t\u1ed5 \u1ea5m \/ v\u00e0 trong c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c n\u00e0ng d\u1eabn d\u1eaft \/ m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau d\u1ea5u \/ c\u0169ng trong c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c, b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1edfi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau<\/em>. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 t\u0129nh l\u1eb7ng n\u01a1i b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1i t\u00f4i, kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 \u00edch k\u1ef7, kh\u1ecfi ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a t\u1ef1 \u00e1i, kh\u1ecfi t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 cao t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o l\u1ec1u chung v\u1edbi Ch\u00faa Ba Ng\u00f4i, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 hay qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

S\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb c\u00f4 l\u1eadp c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp.<\/strong> \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady, n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 nghi\u1ec7n ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 nghi\u1ec7n h\u00e0nh vi (c\u1edd b\u1ea1c, t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, khi\u00eau d\u00e2m, m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed), b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nhu c\u1ea7u th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n v\u00e0 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n ng\u1eeba ch\u00fang?<\/strong> \u0110\u1ec3 gi\u00fap m\u1ed9t linh m\u1ee5c tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh ph\u00f2ng ng\u1eeba ch\u1ee9ng nghi\u1ec7n, tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean \u00f4ng n\u00ean x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh xem ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp hay kh\u00f4ng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 do ti\u1ec1n s\u1eed gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng nghi\u1ec7n, t\u00ednh b\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed3ng, xu h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 m\u1edbi l\u1ea1, ho\u1eb7c lo l\u1eafng hay t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, linh m\u1ee5c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fa \u00fd h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, h\u1ecd n\u00ean c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n th\u00fa v\u1ecb, v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t d\u1ef1 \u00e1n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng gi\u00fap h\u1ecd tham gia v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. H\u1ecd n\u00ean n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u1ed7 m\u00e1y thi\u1ebfu s\u00e1ng ki\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

 \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i v\u1edbi m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh, phim truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c phim khi\u00eau d\u00e2m n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e1m kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3, hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ph\u00f2ng ng\u1eeba s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3?<\/strong> B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1eb7p b\u00e1c s\u0129 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c trung t\u00e2m chuy\u00ean khoa c\u00f4ng l\u1eadp ho\u1eb7c t\u01b0 nh\u00e2n. Th\u00f4ng tin c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c trong k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm tr\u00ean internet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe c\u1ea7n c\u0103n ch\u1ec9nh c\u1ea3 b\u1ed1n b\u00e1nh cho \u0111\u00fang. Nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Sinh h\u1ecdc: \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb c\u00e1c b\u1ec7nh l\u00fd ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n, d\u00f9ng thu\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng. T\u00e2m l\u00fd: \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c thay \u0111\u1ed5i, hy v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n, t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m vui, k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i, gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen m\u1edbi v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3. C\u00e1c nh\u00f3m h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 nh\u01b0 H\u1ed9i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u1ea9n danh (Alcoholics Anonymous), \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng m\u1ecdi nhu c\u1ea7u, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1eefu \u00edch. Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n: nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn n\u00f3, trung th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. M\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng: thay \u0111\u1ed5i khung c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a b\u00e1c s\u0129 t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n Carlos Chiclana t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nhu c\u1ea7u, thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t v\u00e0 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd m\u00e0 c\u00e1c linh m\u1ee5c v\u00e0 ch\u1ee7ng sinh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c cung c\u1ea5p cho h\u1ecd s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":194813,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[172,120,121,178],"class_list":["post-194811","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","tag-congregaciones-religiosas","tag-sacerdote","tag-seminarista","tag-voluntarios"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/fundacioncarf.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/194811","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/fundacioncarf.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/fundacioncarf.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fundacioncarf.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fundacioncarf.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=194811"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/fundacioncarf.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/194811\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fundacioncarf.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/194813"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/fundacioncarf.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=194811"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fundacioncarf.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=194811"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/fundacioncarf.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=194811"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}